What will matter?

Ready or not, some day it will all come to an end. There will be no more sunrises, no days, no hours or minutes. All the things you collected, whether treasured or forgotten,will pass to someone else.

Your wealth, fame and temporal power will shrivel to irrelevance¹. It will not matter what you owned or what you were owed.

Your grudges², resentments³, frustrations⁴, and jealousies⁵ will finally disappear.

So, too, your hopes, ambitions, plans, and to-do lists will all expire. The wins and losses that once seemed so important will fade away.

It won't matter where you came from, or on what side of the tracks you lived.

It won't matter whether you were beautiful or brilliant. Your gender⁶, skin color, ethnicity will be irrelevant⁷.

So what will matter? How will the value of your days be measured?

What will matter is not what you bought, but what you built; not what you got, but what you gave.

What will matter is not your success, but your significance.

What will matter is not what you learned, but what you taught.

What will matter is every act of integrity, compassion⁸, courage and sacrifice that enriched, empowered or encouraged others to emulate⁹ your example.

What will matter is not your competence¹⁰, but your character.

What will matter is not how many people you knew, but how many will feel a lasting¹¹ loss when you're gone.

What will matter is not your memories, but the memories of those who loved you.

What will matter is how long you will be remembered, by whom and for what.

Living a life that matters doesn't happen by accident.

It's not a matter of circumstance but of choice.

Choose to live a life that matters.

1 irrelevance
n.无关紧要；不相关；不相关的事物
参考例句：
the irrelevance of the curriculum to children's daily life 课程与孩子们日常生活的脱节 A President who identifies leadership with public opinion polls dooms himself to irrelevance. 一位总统如果把他的领导和民意测验投票结果等同起来，那么他注定将成为一个可有可无的人物 。 来自辞典例句

2 grudges
不满 ，怨恨，妒忌( grudge的名词复数 )
参考例句：
He never grudges money. 他从不吝惜金钱 。 They bear grudges against each other. 他俩有过节儿。

3 resentments
（因受虐待而）愤恨 ，不满，怨恨( resentment的名词复数 )
参考例句：
He could never transcend his resentments and his complexes. 他从来不能把他的怨恨和感情上的症结置之度外 。 These local resentments burst into open revolt. 地方性反感变成公开暴动。

4 frustrations
挫折( frustration的名词复数 )； 失败； 挫败； 失意
参考例句：
The temptation would grow to take out our frustrations on Saigon. 由于我们遭到挫折而要同西贡算帐的引诱力会增加 。 Aspirations will be raised, but so will frustrations. 人们会产生种种憧憬 ，但是种种挫折也会随之而来。

5 jealousies
n.妒忌( jealousy的名词复数 )；妒羡
参考例句：
They were divided by mutual suspicion and jealousies. 他们因为相互猜疑嫉妒而不和 。 来自《现代汉英综合大词典》 I am tired of all these jealousies and quarrels. 我厌恶这些妒忌和吵架的语言 。 来自辞典例句

6 gender
n.（生理上的）性 ，（名词、代词等的）性
参考例句：
French differs from English in having gender for all nouns.法语不同于英语，所有的名词都有性。 Women are sometimes denied opportunities solely because of their gender.妇女有时仅仅因为性别而无法获得种种机会 。

7 irrelevant
adj.不恰当的 ，无关系的 ，不相干的
参考例句：
That is completely irrelevant to the subject under discussion.这跟讨论的主题完全不相关 。 A question about arithmetic is irrelevant in a music lesson.在音乐课上，一个数学的问题是风马牛不相及的。

8 compassion
n.同情 ，怜悯
参考例句：
He could not help having compassion for the poor creature.他情不自禁地怜悯起那个可怜的人来 。 Her heart was filled with compassion for the motherless children.她对于没有母亲的孩子们充满了怜悯心 。

9 emulate
v.努力赶上或超越 ，与…竞争；效仿
参考例句：
You must work hard to emulate your sister.你必须努力工作，赶上你姐姐。 You must look at the film and try to emulate his behavior.你们必须观看这部电影 ，并尽力模仿他的动作 。

10 competence
n.能力 ，胜任，称职
参考例句：
This mess is a poor reflection on his competence.这种混乱情况说明他难当此任 。 These are matters within the competence of the court.这些是法院权限以内的事。

11 lasting
adj.永久的 ，永恒的；vbl.持续，维持
参考例句：
The lasting war debased the value of the dollar.持久的战争使美元贬值 。 We hope for a lasting settlement of all these troubles.我们希望这些纠纷能获得永久的解决。